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YThursday, November 22, 2007

I realised myself had been changed recently since two months ago. And i realised that nowaday i became more courageous and i would strive to overcome the difficulty instead of feeling depressed or let myself down of some unwished things happended on me.One thing that surprised myself was i would say out to correct those ppl when i felt that wat was i doing now was correct. Coz i felt that the ppl would not know wat's wrong with them and they would still continue to do the same things that they actually were not suppose to do it. So, pls pardon me if i was too straight-forward.

Said out something when neccessary became one part of my life! I could say that. If u never said out wat problem had u been facing and u only kept queit in there, ppl would not understand u and they just felt that u were weird or too negative thinking. And even more some of ppl would likes to bully u already!

Althought u told ppl that wat was the problem that u facing and actually why were u felt so angry toward something, i think u really had to confront with them so that u would know wat was the main reason or causes that made them felt that way and why were they like to do something that always against u? Sometime human being were just too blinded by themselve coz they would not realise that they did something wrong to other ppl.

I remembered last time i also encountered a lot of this kind of problems. I chose to kept quiet although i was very angry of some ppl a hundred yr ago. So, i made myself unhappy coz of this things. Haiz, sometime ppl were weird.. But now i changed my mind already. I would tell u that i felt angry toward u coz u had no reason to keep humuliated me while i didn't do anything wrong to u.. In the end, this ppl never bully me anymore after i told this ppl that i had enough of it already. U see,some ppl were weird! They didn't dare to bully some ppl but they liked to bully the weakest ppl whom they thought so.

To me, being quiet "wu zui" ( no wrong), coz it didn't harm other ppl. If u talk too much and harm other ppl's feeling coz of ur 'unlcean' mouth then u were going too far liao. So, i didn't agree that 'jing gou hui yao ren' ( means quiet dog would bite other ppl). If u didn't bully other ppl, u thought other ppl would felt angry toward u too without reason? So, my conclusion was u must said out and found out the reason instead feeling angry alone, coz it would shorthen ur life... Haha, just kidding lar...
Then u would realised that this was the best way to solve the problem betweeen u and them. It could prevent bigger misunderstanding happend.

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